My white flag might be flying and it might look like surrender but really its just giving me the right place to smile.

July 2020

Shitty long month – Tam been ill. Lots of bites. Difficult to move forward. Feel like I am in quicksand.

Tams Journey

A group of photos showing Tams journey.


It’s 3:30 in the morning and Tam is busy on the computer recording himself reading into the computer. Once he is finished we play it back and read the book together with the recording playing. We then work on the word he does not read clearly. In the meantime I am sitting behind him and…

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Walking the well trodden path

Tam Mantra

Thought I would upload this little file of me and Tam doing an abridged versions of Tams calming mantra. Enjoy

Bad days

Looking after Tam and myself can be tough. Over the past few days it has been really tough. Yesterday Tam was sick. Nothing he had eaten that I can blame but he kept purging for hours and it became too much. I pleaded with him to go to bed and rest as I was not…

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Tam and Mammy

Over the past few days things have changed. We had been out for a walk around the park and something clicked in Tam. Before we even got home he was asking about the photos on the memory wall. At home he points at the photo and I tell him the story of when the photo…

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