Ghostdogs

Ghostdogs

A journey through grief with autism.

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Coffee Time

This might end up being the longest post that I have written. I am largely writing it as a way of pulling together all of the things that have helped and therefore to remind me what is working. I hope as a side effect of that you find something useful.

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Eyes

Over Christmas Tam has enough to deal with. I try my best to protect him and show him all of the love that he could want. We have as much fun as we can and when fun is not welcome we prop each other up and work through it.

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Tam & Mammy

It’s been a long time since I have posted anything. Not that I haven’t wanted to say anything or had anything to write about, it’s just been a real difficult time for Tam and myself. I have been writing a journal twice a day to try to get a handle on things but to be honest what I have written in that journal I would not post. So right now I have decided to post a few new things to bring Tam’s journey up to date. So over the next week I will be posting an update on how…

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Tam & Mammy

I got an email from someone (I said I wouldn’t) that I was spending too much time complaining on the website and I should talk more about the solutions to Tam and my problems. After a bit of a conversation and a read back they are right. The posts are a bit “poor me”. I do stand by my reasoning to begin with. They are written from the point of view of a grieving Dad, a Dad that is also grieving for the loss his son has had and how they have added to his life challenges.

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Tam & Mammy

It’s a week since Tams birthday and it has been a real tough week. Tam was sent home on his birthday from school. He was full of anxiety and was asking me to swap his birthday presents for mammy. Heartbreaking. The truth is I would give everything for him to have his mammy.

Alan Greenwell

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Sunrise

For the longest of times both me and Bev would ask the support staff at school and in the medical profession - “when will Tam speak?”. None of them would give an answer. Now I get why. Every child is different and every autistic child is even more different.

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Tam & Mammy

Shitty long month - Tam been ill. Lots of bites. Difficult to move forward. Feel like I am in quicksand.

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Mantra

Thought I would upload this little file of me and Tam doing an abridged versions of Tams calming mantra. Enjoy

Alan Greenwell

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misty morning

Nocturnal life is common amongst geeks. I have stayed up until the early hours and then got up at 6am and headed off to work, with a couple of hours of sleep. As I have got older, I have become less and less able to do it. Now, as a single parent of Tam, I have had to learn how to do it again. 

Alan Greenwell

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Tam

Its Sunday at 11pm and Tam has been asleep on and off all day. 30 minutes here and hour there. A couple of hours ago he threw up. Still not sure if it was stress or ill. I can normally tell by the smell but this time I think it was half and half. Let’s put it this way, I cannot send him to school.

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